[ It's good for Varian that Kurt's had plenty of experience with awkward teenagers. He studies Varian for a moment, then gives a small shrug, not dismissing the questions, but indicating his own acceptance of the situation. ]

You have to come to terms with your feelings. Don't fight them. Loving someone in one way doesn't mean that you can't, or shouldn't, love anyone else. Each person will bring different things to your life, different experiences, different ways of looking at things. Different ways of feeling love, and of feeling loved in turn. [ He smiles fondly to himself as he looks down at his coffee, then glances up at Varian. ]

Do you feel as though they're pulling you in different directions? Or is that coming from within you?